March 31, 2020

Griffin West Howe

We welcomed little Griffin to our family on the very last day of March, just in time to be part of the family birthday club. He arrived safely after 30+ hours of labor and we are so happy to have him here! He is a chubster with dark hair and eyes, just like his siblings - I think it's safe to say we only make one model of baby :) More pictures and his story will follow soon. 

It took us a full two days to choose a name for this boy. In the end we settled on "Griffin," which has no special meaning or family connection, but it was something we could agree on! His middle name is "West" which is a family name from the Parkinson (my mom's) line. 





His siblings were not able to come to see him in the hospital because of Covid-19, but we took some pictures at home on our bed a couple weeks after he was born. Our family is now complete!


March 30, 2020

March Roundup

At the beginning of March I thought our month would have been dominated by birthday celebrations and preparing for baby. While those were big highlights, coronavirus overshadowed everything. This will forever be the month when life went from completely normal, to living in isolation over just a few weeks. Looking back at our pictures we had so many adventures, and then everything just came to a stand still. It will be interesting to see how April goes...

I had been taking Davey to swim at the gym pool on Tuesday mornings to prepare for lessons that we was supposed to start at the end of the month. He actually did really great and made a lot of progress! I was going to skip Level 1 and enroll him in Level 2 before they were cancelled.


It turns out I hosted the last Letter Group meeting for who knows how long. It was for "U" which was pretty tricky. We did lots of activities that had to do with "UP in the air" or "UNDER the sea."


For our craft the kids made "up, up and away" pictures and then we used toothpicks and marshmallows to create "urchins"


Making rain in a jar at the Discovery Center. I was amazed at how quickly Charlie learned to use a pipette to transfer the liquids!


Sophie was invited to a birthday party for a classmate at an archery range! She had a great time and was able to pop a balloon a few different times. 


A Chick fil A location a little further from our house has a "Kids Night" every couple weeks where kids eat free and get to do a craft. The activity this time was making slime, which they loved! The second activity for March was supposed to be planting a flower seed, but it was called off when all the restaurant dining rooms were closed.



One of my last OB appointments, and the last time I brought the boys along since their presences was no longer allowed after coronavirus arrived in our area.


Enjoying Toddler Time at the local trampoline park


Seeing the way things were headed, we had an early birthday celebration for the kids at Chuck E. Cheese. It was such a fun night and they had a blast playing all the games. Sure enough, the place was closed down just a week later so I'm glad we went early!





One of our very last outings was bowling at Cinergy. They were offering free bowling one morning so I took the kids out for some fun. I am wondering which is bigger - the 8 pound bowling ball, or the boy in my belly...


My amazing Dallas friends gifted me a pedicure at a local nail salon as a baby gift. Luckily I was able to use it before they were shuttered, and it was heavenly!


Life at home has now begun...


Our library had a bird feeder activity planned for the kids that was cancelled, but they were so nice and assembled little kits with all the supplies and left them out for people to pick up and take home. We had a fun time making them and then hanging them in our front trees.



A local business offered free Icees one day! They were doing everything curbside and you just had to point at the flavor you wanted and they would bring it to your car. Such a fun treat!


Being at home all day makes you realize things like how dirty your windows are... 18 windows later I was exhausted, but now we can at least see outside again!


This almost big brother is starting to look a little big for his closet nursery


We took a Sunday walk around the duck pond and fed some of the most docile geese I've ever seen, probably because they've been fed around the clock by all the people taking a break from quarantine.



March 27, 2020

Living the Pandemic Life

Just three weeks ago everything was still normal here in Amarillo. We are a large, but relatively isolated city so it took awhile for the affects of the virus to catch up to us, but now we are living the quarantine life like the rest of the country. Fortunately the number of cases in our county is still low, but sadly it will probably keep rising over the next few weeks.

Right now Amarillo is operating at status level "Orange" which means there are confirmed cases in our area, we are to practice social distancing, gatherings of more than 10 people are to be cancelled, and we are to restrict travel as much as possible. I thought I would write a bit about what this means for our family right now. Hopefully when we look back in a month or two, things will have improved instead of escalated!!

Every afternoon the city puts out a "report card" to let us know how things are going


Dave's Work: WT has closed it's campus for the foreseeable future. Graduation has also been cancelled. Dave is still working though! He was already teaching one online course that will continue, but now his two "in person" courses will also move to online. He has been busy recording his lectures to share with students, and translating as many assignments, quizzes and exams to online format as well. It's a lot of work to have to reinvent courses that were already in place, but we are glad he is still employed and has a way to keep working through this crisis. His summer courses that are supposed to begin in May were already online, so hopefully those will still take place and not be cancelled. 


Sophie's School: Sophie's last day of class was Friday, March 13th. I'm grateful she was able to stay in school as long as she did! Several of our friends in other cities went out the week before we did. I'm also glad we decided to celebrate her birthday at school early before everything shut down. Right now classes have been cancelled through the beginning of April, but I wouldn't be surprised if that gets extended for at least another month. That's the direction the rest of the country seems to be going. 

Today our distance learning is going to begin and we will do our best to keep up with whatever the district sends home. Up until now I've made no attempts to home school other than working through a few math pages with Sophie. She really misses school and seeing her friends, but I'm not worried about her academically. She reads A LOT on her own and with the two (soon to be three) little boys I just don't have the time or energy to plan out content to keep her going. For now her learning will happen through puzzles, art, reading, and games. 


The school had a teacher parade yesterday, where the staff drove through the neighborhood to wave at all the kids. We went to watch, but Sophie's teacher didn't participate so that was a little disappointing.


Shopping: There is a lot of panic buying going on right now and things are flying off the shelves, but I have always been good about keeping things two or three deep in our pantry and replacing items as soon as we use them, so we are in good shape. We already had a good supply of frozen meat, rice, pasta, canned goods, cereal, and other basic pantry items before things started to get scarce. Right now we are only having to shop for weekly perishables like milk, produce, and bread, and even if we weren't able to get those, I have enough frozen to last a couple weeks. 

We also were already stocked up on baby items, like diapers and wipes, thanks to sales in January. I probably have a three month supply for both Charlie and the new baby. The only area where we could see trouble is if this baby for some reason needs formula. I've heard that's hard to get right now. 

Cereal aisle has been wiped out


Fresh meat has been really hard to find, but we already had a freezer full


The frozen veggie aisle - we were out of corn, but after a few tries I was able to grab a few bags that had just been restocked


I still don't understand the toilet paper hoarding. It is flying off the shelves as soon as it arrives. We have two cases from Sam's as part of our normal storage, so hopefully things will be back to normal by the time we work our way through it.


Any cleaning/sanitizing products have understandably been hard to find. I was at Sam's the morning they happened to bring in a pallet of Clorox wipes and it felt like I had won the lottery!


Gas just keeps getting cheaper, although we hardly ever need to fill up since we aren't driving anywhere these days. I wonder how low it will go before finally bottoming out...


Public Services: all city sponsored programs have been suspended, which for us means no more library visits, zoo and the kids soccer and swimming lessons were both cancelled. Luckily our library is offering a drive up service, where you can still put items on hold and then they will bring them out to your car once they arrive. Our kids LOVE books so we maxed our both our cards before the libraries closed, and then we have been using the drive up service to replenish as we finish. 

The kids are sad about soccer, especially because Dave was going to be coaching Sophie's team again this spring. Their first games were supposed to happen tomorrow. At this point we will see if they still attempt to hold a short season after things calm down, or if we will just try again in the fall. 


Sophie reads a chapter book a day, so I have been building up a little library for her just in case the drive up service also gets suspended. 


Church: We have been out of church for two weeks now. I was wondering how Dave was going to manage three kids at church with all his meetings once the new baby came, but now it looks like that won't be a problem. The announcement was made minutes before I was supposed to leave the house for a Relief Society activity. If it had come a day earlier I would have also missed the Young Women's activity for the week. Temples have now also closed and missionaries serving abroad have all been sent home. General Conference will also be broadcast only, with each session consisting of prerecorded music and only those speaking in attendance. 


Davey's sweet primary teacher has been mailing him a handout lesson each week


Health Services: Babies will be born no matter what is happening in the world, so the OB clinics and hospitals are still open for prenatal and labor/delivery services. I am not one to have a home birth. They now screen all people coming in, however, and no longer allow children under 18 to enter. Luckily I only had a few weekly OB visits left and Dave was able to watch the boys for those appointments. I am a little sad that the kids will be able to come see their new baby brother in the hospital when he is born, but we will have a good reunion when I bring him home. At least Dave will still be able to be there for the birth, unlike in  New York, where all visitors, even spouses have been banned. 

Most other clinics are now been closed for routine services like physicals, dental cleanings, vision checks, chiropractic treatment, and elective procedures. We have several people in our ward and stake who work in these fields and it's a pretty uncertain time for them and their families.


Social Distancing: This has been a hard one for our family because we normally have a very full calendar, which is now completely empty. We have been doing our best to stay isolated as instructed though, and really have not left the house for anything other than groceries or tools in several days. The kids are missing their friends so bad and I am missing being able to leave the house to take them places. We have noticed that they are staying up about an hour later each night, probably because without school and other activities they are not burning off as much energy as normal. 

All our museums, playgrounds, movie theaters, gyms, churches and more have closed. Luckily we have a good house with a backyard and playroom to have fun in, and the kids have each other for company. I think I would be going crazy if we still lived in our Utah apartment during all of this!!

There are a million COVID memes circulating around, which are always a bright spot and make me laugh, but this is one of my favorites since I've always loved Harry Potter.


At home the kids have been busy building forts (thanks Grandma Howe for the fun birthday gift!). It gets torn down and reconstructed almost daily.


We've been doing lots of puzzles - this is one that Sophie got from Mimi for her birthday. It's double-sided and if you flip it over there are cats on the reverse - so fun!


I really don't enjoy arts and crafts, mostly because of the clean up, but the kids LOVE them so I have been trying to get over my OCD tendencies to let them be creative (aka messy).


Each night we take a walk through the neighborhood to get out some wiggles. I am so glad the weather has been nicer lately so we can be outside more!


Hiking is not the best activity for me right now at 39 weeks pregnant, but I am trying! We took a much needed field trip to the canyon yesterday, and the kids had a wonderful time exploring and getting dirty. 


There has also been lots of backyard play time. Charlie finally conquered his fear of the trampoline and now spends lots of time doing "bouncy, bouncy." Yesterday was even warm enough for the bigger kids to play in the sprinklers!


We made little "boredom buster" kits for our friends and delivered them one day. It made the kids happy to bring surprises to their friends, even though they weren't able to get out and play with them. Most of the goodies I already had in my closet from holiday clearance shopping and the rest we were able to get in my grocery pick up order.